Being Straight is MORE Than Beyond Being a Heterosexual Person!
I'm against homosexual marriages than again there are some issues that these lost homosexuals have raised up and I do agree with. There are some heterosexual marriages that fail and why is that? Because they're not straight! Now a male chauvinist can say, "Hey what do you mean I'm not straight, preacher?" and then raises his fists at me. Now I'd like to define straight even better. It's not just the absence of homosexuality, it's rather a healthy, LEGITIMATE heterosexual marriage. It doesn't mean that the relationship is between a man and a woman that it's automatically legitimate or something like that.
Misconceptions about being a "straight"
1.) Men are expected to be tough, bullish, brawlers, drunkards, womanizers, etc. to be straight. There is NOTHING straight about man who fools around with the opposite sex, gets drunk, watches tons of pornographic videos and being defiant to authority his ways are as crooked as the homosexual since he can also be prone to homosexuality. Men can't be called homosexuals just because they are hygienic, refuse to womanize, refuse to have vices, like gardening, like cooking, etc. but male homosexuals are male homosexuals because they engage in having sex with the same gender! Even some male homosexuals are brawlers, drunkards and have big muscles while some of the best heterosexual men are wimpy! Men who watch tons of pornographic images may be bound to do sexual crimes like rape and sexual harassment because what you feed your find can affect your actions! Also there is NOTHING manly about menw ho beat up their wives. Men are commanded to LOVE their wives!
2.) Women are expected to be too girly. Yes women should be submissive but a loving kind of submissiveness. Ephesians 5:22-25 and Colossians 3:18-19 require women to submit but also the husband to love. What is also very wrong is that some women are expected to act like "nobility", always to be "pretty" and all... even to the point they put on a lot of make-up, expected to curtsy which I can find annoying. While it's good for women to learn to sew and stitch but expecting them to "doll up" all the time is really cruel treatment. Also 1 Corinthians 7:4 declares that husband and wife are to be submissive to one another in kindness. Every submissive wife must learn to strike back at an abusive husband as much as they must learn to submit. The reason is because abusive husbands are no less sinful than "loving" homosexual couples.
So what heterosexual relationships are sinful?
1.) Incest. Definitely a no-no and destructive to the family tree. Whether nominal or by blood, it's really bad. Blood incest creates a generation of freaks like marriage between parent to child, uncle/aunt to niece/nephew, between cousins, etc. is going to kill the bloodline and for one thing in marrying one's own adoptive family, it's what I'd call as if committing blood incest. Also it's very immoral for the stepparent to have sexual relations with the stepchild which 1 Corinthians 5 had placed a question mark whether or not such a person was a believer. Nominal incest can also be as bad as stealing one's brother's wife in the case of Herod stealing Herodias (I still am confused whether or not she was also his blood relative since John the Baptist condemned adultery not blood incest).
2.) Adulterous relationships. It's clear that it's one man to one woman aside from banning incest. However there are people with adulterous relationships or having more than one partner. While polygamy for men was allowable in the Old Testament, it is definitely never allowed in the New Testament. It's a very immoral thing for a man to have more than one wife as for a woman to have more than one husband as every extra partner is nothing more than a paramour! Muhammad and Joseph Smith were so immoral- Muhammad had 18 mistresses and Joseph Smith had 64 mistresses! Herod the Tetrarch stealing away his sister-in-law Herodias from her husband Herod Philip was definitely so immoral John the Baptist had no other choice but to condemn it publicly because it was a bad influence to people of their time and perhaps Salome was a whore herself. In today's setting, there's also sequential polygamy when a man or a woman keeps changing partners via multiple divorces. Jesus was clear that whosoever marries a divorced person commits adultery and that God ordained a one man-one woman marriage (Matthew 19). For some who consider divorce cumbersome and stressful due to all the examinations start of with a live-in relationship.
3.) Pedophilia. It's definitely wrong for adults to engage in sexual relations with underaged people. Even if it's not a Catholic priest raping an altar boy, it's still wrong. It disturbed me to think of a certain charismatic Pentecostal pastor who while condemning Roman Catholicism was having pedophilia with various teenage women across his country to the point his assistant pastor turned him over to the authorities and called him a fraud. It's also very wrong for adults to prey on the underaged, it's just not right principles with God's Law. Thinking of it, it's very shameful some heterosexual marriages lose their vigor because the husband was caught fooling around with an underaged lady or vice versa. It's wrong, always wrong to commit pedophilia. Muhammad himself was a pedophile- his youngest mistress Safiya was only nine years old!
4.) Bestiality/ I could care less if the animal is of a different gender from the human being, bestiality is utterly disgusting and harmful to one's health. Exodus 22:19 and Deuteronomy 27:21 as part of the moral law severely condemns bestiality.
As said sinful heterosexual activities are just as bad as homosexual activities. They are sexual perversions.