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Learning from King Solomon's Repentance and Restoration

Solomon became the wisest king Israel ever had yet he made a lot of foolish decisions. Even before his dream at Gibeon - he already made the mistake of marrying a pagan princess from Egypt. We know Egypt is an ungodly nation and God already warned not to make such ill alliances. Also, Deuteronomy 17:17 warns that a king must not take multiple wives or greatly enrich himself. Yet's that's what he did - he enriched himself and took multiple wives! 1 Kings 11:1-4  But king Solomon loved many strange women, together with the daughter of Pharaoh, women of the Moabites, Ammonites, Edomites, Zidonians, and Hittites: [2] Of the nations concerning which the Lord said unto the children of Israel, Ye shall not go in to them, neither shall they come in unto you: for surely they will turn away your heart after their gods: Solomon clave unto these in love. [3] And he had seven hundred wives, princesses, and three hundred concubines: and his wives turned away his heart. [4] For it came to...

David's Greatest Enemy Was His Self-Confidence

David's greatest enemy was neither Saul nor Goliath but his self-confidence. We read of how David had become such a successful king that he had grown overconfident. 2 Samuel 11 details for us the ugly truth of David's self-confidence. It was the time for kings to go to war but where was David? He still tarried in Jerusalem. This is where David's self-confidence became his downfall. Perhaps he thought he had served God so faithfully, he has won many battles - all the while he never expected that his midlife crisis (David was most likely in his late 40s when he saw Bathsheba) would bring his downfall. Solomon was 20 when David was 70 - which may make David 49 years old when he saw Bathsheba. The situation of David's adultery was pretty much a middle aged man with a very young woman. Bathsheba was obviously young enough to be his daughter. Her grandfather Ahitophel was once an adviser of David. It's possible that David once burped Bathsheba as an infant when he wa...

The Herodias Syndrome

Like it or not, there are women who suffer from what I call the "Herodias Syndrome".  In the Scriptures, we read Herodias' account as a very wicked woman who was previously married to Herod Philip but eloped with her brother-in-law, Herod Antipas and ran off with her daughter Salome under her custody in a live-in relationship.  What made this an entire public scandal was that Herod Antipas was also married, left his wife for a live-in relationship with his sister-in-law.  Now today, there are also women who are similar to Herodias.  This is a sad fact that feminism repeats the actions of wicked women like Delilah, Jezebel, Athaliah and also Herodias.  Compared to Bathsheba who repented of her adultery, these women can be habitually adulterous proving they aren't Christians if they would profess they are.  No true Christian even if they sin, can ever remain in an indefinite state of carnality. If I am to describe the Herodias syndrome, this pictures ...

Adulterous Live-In Couples Can't Expect Their Children to Turn Out Right!

When God's covenant is broken, expect only more consequences of sin rather than the daily hardship one encounters in life.  It just amazes me to think just how many people can be very ungrateful to their spouses.  For example, a man has an argument with his spouse later dumps her for another woman or the gender roles can be reversed. The worst side can be when a man who is legally married to his wife dumps his wife for another man's wife.  So what happens in that adulterous relationship is that the man leaves his wife for another woman and then that other woman leaves her husband for another woman's husband, that's even a double jeopardy where not just one but two parties can sue- the woman's husband and the man's wife!  It does get worse when the two may pretend to get "married" in any "formal ceremony" maybe at the rice field, get a corrupt minister (ex. there are even pastors who dare perform fake marriages and trial marriages!) with the ...

Listen to John Macarthur's "The Truth About Divorce"

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Divorce is a plague that is literally hitting everyone and it's destroying America and since it's February and Valentine's day is approaching NEAR, I am afraid that divorce rates will skyrocket as adulteries skyrocket- there is a connection between both sins like hatred and murder, all small sins leads to greater sins and James 2:10-11 is clear, break one rule, you've broken them all.  In fact, Pastor John Macarthur has been revealing some very disturbing facts that the world wants to do away with God's plan of the family, marriage for life and every disturbing wickedness that's hitting everyone.  Now listen to these two parts against divorce.  Thanks to Grace to You Ministries for providing their videos for public viewing on Youtube. Part 1- Part 2-

Flirting with a Bad Woman is Playing with FIRE!!!!

"You cannot play with fire and not get yourself burned." Likewise the Bible also says this in Proverbs 6:23-26 saying: For the commandment is a lamp; and the Law is light and reproofs of instruction are the way of life: To keep thee from the evil woman, from the flattery of the tongue of a strange woman. LUST NOT after her beauty in thine heart; neither let her take thee with her eyelids. For by means of a whorish woman a man is brought to a piece of bread and the adulteress will hunt for the PRECIOUS LIFE. Can a man take fire in his bosom and his clothes not be burned? Can one go upon hot coals and his feet be not burned? So he that goeth in to his neighbor's wife whosoever toucheth her shall not be innocent. Men do not despise a thief if he steal to satisfy his soul when he is hungry; but if he be found he shall restore sevenfold; he shall give allt he substance of his house. But whosever commiteth adultery with a woman LACKETH UNDERSTANDING; he that doeth it de...

The Curse of Marital Infidelity and Its Partners

I just thought of how today's society has gone into several wrong issues going on like "Money comes first." and "Men can treat women as badly as they can." Now here's the issue today, we have the issue of marital infidelity which has destroyed today's society. So here we have women who become mistresses for the sake of money . I could hardly understand why men themselves while their wives are proper with them would rather choose to go out with bad girls. I've heard of various stories from various people who told me of how the female paramours are most of the time- they hardly care about their boyfriends and all they want is the money. Again, 1 Timothy 6:10 says that the love of money is the ROOT of all evil. So why do these women waste their dignity and get themselves pregnant? Simple. The civil laws require that men are to treat their children well, legitimate or illegitimate . Of course while an illegitimate child has only 0.5x of the x of the le...

The Husband's Adultery as a Form of Psychological Violence

As a reader of Baptist apologist Atty. Gerry Galacio's blog called Family Matters, I definitely want to think of how adultery laws can now define the husband's adultery as a form or act of psychological violence.  The entire problem of the matter is that regardless how many women the husband has already slept with, he cannot be filed for adultery.  However the law has fortunately provided the right of the wife to file her husband for adultery (even for just one incident) under the name of psychological violence.  This can be defined as: "Acts or omissions causing or likely to cause mental or emotional suffering of the victim such as but not limited to intimidation, harassment, stalking, damage to property, public ridicule or humiliation, repeated verbal abuse and marital infidelity . It includes causing or allowing the victim to witness the physical, sexual or psychological abuse of a member of the family to which the victim belongs, or to witness pornography in any f...

The Ruining of Families in Today's Godless Society

I would like to do this rather intensive study on why the families of today are ruined. I would like to give a wake-up call to why our families are being ruined. It's a huge wake-up call I believe should be a real blast to the extremes of modernism. Please note that I DO NOT endorse the abusiveness of male chauvinism either. Chauvinism whether it'd be male or female is sinful. Now as you go through these topics, I would like to really tackle on MANY reasons why the family unit in society is getting destroyed. Plus we do have the ten planks of Communism to thank for that! As a born again Christian, I would rather follow the Bible's ways for raising a household than the "evolution" of today's society. After all the Bible says in John 15:18-19 and Romans 12:1-3 that Christians are NEVER to conform or seek approval from the world! That is, their behavior must be conformed according to the world of God, not according to worldly standards! Seriously society is...

Annulment and Divorce: It's the SAME in God's Eyes!

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Matthew 19:6 says, "Wherefore they are no more twain, but one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder ." The issue today is that many synonyms are treated like antonyms. Two words that get played as such also are divorce and annulment? Is there a difference? The legal constitution of man may redefine them but the effect is still the same. It's still divorce. It's still annulment. Mrs. Liberty Jesalva of Bible Baptist Church says, " Christian lawyers cannot defend a law that is a lie ." when she was asked about Christian lawyers who handle the ANNULMENT cases in her article, "Saving the Christian Home " in Volume 3, Issue 8 of the Baptist Herald. Now for the definition of annul and divorce: Annul- make (something, esp a law or marriage) void; cancel the validity of; abolish, To obliterate the effect or existence of: Divorce- To dissolve the marriage bond between, To end marriage with (one'...